Take The Mulligan
By: Linda Long Apr 17th, 2010Category: Contributor Posts
Last night I had a dream. I was rocking a baby in my arms. I was so perplexed by the dream. Why would I be having this dream? I don’t want children and really never have felt that maternal urge. I assumed that is what the dream was about. Well, the anxiety attack started setting in and I knew it was time to do some research. So I hopped online and looked up Dream Interpretation. According to dream interpretation books, babies can also represent new beginnings, turning a corner or a fresh start.
Getting a new start in life is something I can relate to and understand. I’ve been cruising along in life riding the terrific waves of joy and prosperity and, then, life happens. I lost my job. I lost my apartment. I lost every dime I had. I lost friends. I lost hope. I lost myself, lost my soul and I lost my belief. When you are that down, it’s hard to imagine ever being back up again. It’s hard to have faith things will turn around when you hit the very bottom of the bottom. And, if you are really beaten up, you even consider surrendering yourself to the darkness and taking your own life. I know of what I speak. I’ve been there. Life can really knock it out of you sometimes and in moments of weakness the release seems so easy.
But, then, life happens again. One good thing happens, then the next good thing happens and little by little over time it turns around. Little by little you start feeling like you are on the upswing rather than the downswing. Then, pretty soon, look out. You are back on top! The power to whether the storm of life is deep down in your own soul. Yes, friends, family, strangers and God can help you along the way. They can cut you the break you may need. They can answer a prayer in just the right way. But, it is up to you to receive the message. It’s up to you to allow yourself to think the impossible can come true and to open yourself up to receive all of the goodness the universe has to offer.
In Golf, a Mulligan is Do-Over. Everyone one of us deserves a Mulligan now and then. Even when we really screw up or when we give it our best shot but just don’t succeed, we deserve to start at scratch and give it another shot. The beauty of life is that it is never too late to learn a new way to swing or a new way to look at the course. Life is all about how you approach it just as Golf is all about how you approach the ball. Just keep your eye on the ball, swing all the way through and let the ball fly further than your mind’s eye can see.
Today chose to address your life with hope. Let all the goodness in life fill your soul and make you new and shiny. Today chose to allow the new beginning that’s lurking just around your corner come into view. Today, when life happens, take the Mulligan you are offered and stay in the game. You just might surprise yourself.
By Linda Long, @lindalulong on Twitter
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TwitterID: DarrenSproat

Linda,
Welcome to Then Life Happens… great post.
The post was actually supposed to go live tomorrow but hey, a day early never hurts does it?
My life has been filled with second chances and, you know, those second chances are usually me granting myself permission to take a chance over again. Starting a family, college, career, marriage… for me, they all had second chances and I am grateful I have allowed myself to experience those ‘do-overs’…
Darren Sproat
.-= Check out Darren Sproat´s last blog ..Look in Your Own Backyard First =-.
TwitterID: LindaLongWrites
Darren,
Thanks for the opportunity. I’ve had a few do-overs in my life. Those opportunities have completely changed my life and started me in a new better direction.
Glad you liked the post:-)
LInda
TwitterID: lance02
Hi Linda,
It’s great to meet you!
I love this idea that we can have do-overs in life. Because sometimes, especially when things aren’t going so well, we can easily begin to think “woe is me”. And the truth is, we can always start over. Or even just make some slight adjustments. And who know what a difference that can make!
.-= Check out Lance´s last blog ..Centennial Edition: Sunday Thought For The Day =-.
TwitterID: LindaLongWrites
Lance, I can’t wait to read you blog. When people are down they forget they can just take a do-over. Or least make some changes. Life is a cycle. Down is up, up is down. I guess we just have to buckle ourselves in and enjoy the ride.
Thanks
Linda
Linda,
This is beautiful and very inspiring!
A great read to start off Sunday morning!
Kellie
TwitterID: LindaLongWrites
Thanks for the encouragement Kellie
Very well put Good luck Linda !!!
TwitterID: LindaLongWrites
Richie, I am glad you liked it
Linda,
WOW! Beautiful and well done. Much continued success in your writing and good for you following your dream.
Cindy
TwitterID: LindaLongWrites
Cindy, Thank you so much. Love, Linda
Dear Linda,
I’m so blessed to have worked with you and have you as a friend. Your words above are very inspiring – and you are so right, sometimes when your down you feel that you can’t get up – but keep the faith and HOPE. Sending love your way! Kimmie R
TwitterID: LindaLongWrites
Kimmie, in many ways, you and I are on the same path. Keep up the good work on your end my friend. I love YOU! Linda
Enjoyed your blog. I have had some do-overs for sure! Losing job and getting divorced the same year – you find out that those things DO NOT DEFINE YOU!!
Right now with my unemployment being over, I have hope that might next life story is about to begin!
TwitterID: LindaLongWrites
Hello my friend, I am absolutely sure you are about to go back into the upswing of things. I am here for you:-) Just keep up. On day all the work will payoff. with love, linda
Linda, I so enjoyed your writing! I can’t wait to read more!
Dawn
Hello my friend, I am absolutely sure you are about to go back into the upswing of things. I am here for you:-) Just keep up. On day all the work will payoff. with love, linda
TwitterID: LindaLongWrites
Dawn
Thanks so much. I will let you know when the next posts go up. In the meantime,you can read some of my other stuff at http://www.lindalulong.com. THanks again:-)
Linda,
I’m so impressed with your inspired post. It’s beautiful and moving. I knew you liked to write, and I can see your soul and talent shining through. Thanks.
Mary
TwitterID: LindaLongWrites
Thanks Mary. I appreciate your kind words. Luv, Linda
TwitterID: cindyashton
Great work Linda. Your work comes across in a gentle, loving and encouraging way. I love the compassion in it – it really allows us to forgive ourselves and … do it again.
Keep up the amazing work!
TwitterID: LindaLongWrites
Thank you Cindy. You’ve been an inspiration:-) Linda
Hi Linda,
Take the Mulligan is such an inspiration! to me. It provides inspiration to me at a time I need it most.
A great message in a loving way!
TwitterID: LindaLongWrites
Maria
Thanks so much for the beautiful comment. I glad it touched you. I am humbled by the response this blog has received. Yours in Peace, love, happiness and friendship, linda
TwitterID: DarrenSproat
Linda,
What a perfect post for this blog… you captured the spirit of Then Life Happens beautifully… embrace the mindset that everything happens for a reason, the good, the bad, the ugly and regardless, take every experience as a learning experience to become better.
I wish you the very best and am looking forward to future posts. This was an amazing contribution to Then Life Happens, thank you!
Darren
.-= Check out Darren Sproat’s recent blog >> A Sunday Wish for You =-.
TwitterID: LindaLongWrites
Darren, Thanks so much for the kind comment. And, THANKS for the opportunity to write for a such a great blog and pursue my dream. I look forward to enjoying our great relationship and being a contributor to http://www.thenlifehappens.com
Thankfully yours,
Linda